Arranged Marraiges Vs Love Marraiges and how marraiges work...

Helllloooo its been a month since i blogged been wanting to write but life is full of twists n turns n hav ha no time to breathe ...finallly dcided 2 write today...always wondered how this whole arranged marraige scene works n vice versa welll according to me each has its own plus points n flaws..i dont understand how the whole arranged marraige scene works,parents search for a boy,a suitable alliance a big fat education and a decent boy is considered a worthy pick...boy comes to see girl rarely girls consent is taken and marraige is fixed.....but trust me how do you get to know an individual in a meeting which just lasts for a few minutes can it actuall decide your soul partner..?how would you know whetehr you'll even match ???? Likely you take love marraiges you are in a relationship for a couple of years loads of comprimises,adjustments and umpteen attempts at making ur relationship work and 3 years down the line you'll realise you'll arent made for each other....soooo der u c each has its own flaws ...nothing is perfect ....according to me how an ideal marraige or a perfect partner s totally and solely based on understanding,trust,giving each other ones space and respecting each other as an individual...we need to accept each others flaws and work on it none of us are born perfect we hav positive and negative points in us dat doesnt make us lesser as a person...we need to know how to make our flaws our positive points...marraige is alll about how we want to make it work and keep the fire alive...

Passion in Life

Well hello people...finally i decided its high time i started blogging...wanted to do so for a very very loong time now but always thought wats d point of blogging hows it gonna help me,will it be of any use...been reading blogs of many people over d past few months n i finally decided its high time i blog too...hehe...hope u guys dont get 2bored with my blogs,will try 2keep them as interesting as i can...well one thing which has always been on my mind since my teenage days was this word called 'passion'...passion for a particular thing in life..and do we really end up following our passion or succumb to other pressures in life,end up doing something we never wanted to do..what i realised over time is parents tend to push their ideas and ambitions on their kids,their dreams they couldn't fulfill when they were young,they want their children to do something they never got a chance to do..but my question here is do they even realise that they r killing the dreams of a young child,are they even making an attempt to know if their kid is interested???
According to me i feel no matter who,be it our parents or anyone at the end of the day we need to follow our dreams,we should do something in life in which our interest lies..everyone on this planet may criticize you but turn a deaf ear towards them,follow your heart,you know what you are doing,there is no excitement in life without taking any risk,the no of times v falll down the higher we rise in life...we need to do what we want to and not because someone else wants us to do it cuz v will b d ultimate sufferer towards the end....turn your dreams into reality,if you have a passion for a particular thing in life turn it into reality...its a common misjudgement in our country that an actors son will become an actor only or a doctors kid will end up being a doctor too...but do we realise does that kid even have the passion of becoming an actor or doctor or capability to become one??i have always beleived in my dreams i have fallen many times,people have mocked me several times for making the wrong decision,but deep within i beleive in myself and i know i can make it ...it has made me a stronger person and what matters the most is i am doing what i like,not because someone wanted me to do it...