Arranged Marraiges Vs Love Marraiges and how marraiges work...

Helllloooo its been a month since i blogged been wanting to write but life is full of twists n turns n hav ha no time to breathe ...finallly dcided 2 write today...always wondered how this whole arranged marraige scene works n vice versa welll according to me each has its own plus points n flaws..i dont understand how the whole arranged marraige scene works,parents search for a boy,a suitable alliance a big fat education and a decent boy is considered a worthy pick...boy comes to see girl rarely girls consent is taken and marraige is fixed.....but trust me how do you get to know an individual in a meeting which just lasts for a few minutes can it actuall decide your soul partner..?how would you know whetehr you'll even match ???? Likely you take love marraiges you are in a relationship for a couple of years loads of comprimises,adjustments and umpteen attempts at making ur relationship work and 3 years down the line you'll realise you'll arent made for each other....soooo der u c each has its own flaws ...nothing is perfect ....according to me how an ideal marraige or a perfect partner s totally and solely based on understanding,trust,giving each other ones space and respecting each other as an individual...we need to accept each others flaws and work on it none of us are born perfect we hav positive and negative points in us dat doesnt make us lesser as a person...we need to know how to make our flaws our positive points...marraige is alll about how we want to make it work and keep the fire alive...